Charles, Bill...and Me. |
This weekend a bicycle expo was held in the area. One of the
exhibitors is a popular bicycle shop called Wheel & Sprocket. And although
I am not a cyclist, seeing a promo on television for this event reminded me of
my own connection with the bike store.
Some years ago, Wheel & Sprocket sponsored a contest for
local artists to submit a comic strip about the bike shop. Contestants vied for
a chance to win a $100 gift certificate to the shop, and the winning comic
strip would be published on the front page of the Sunday Comic section of
largest newspaper in the city.
Now, about this same time, I had a young graphic design instructor
who had a very “office professional” appearance and somewhat stiff demeanor. “Wynn”—not
his real name—wore nice suits and neckties to every class. His hair was always
neatly trimmed and combed. He had sharp facial features, and I personally rarely
saw him smile.
If Wynn grasped any correlation between “Design” and “Art”, it
did not show. Rather, it seemed that somehow, while earning his degree, he did
not learn that many great masters like Michelangelo, Duchamp and Calder
crossed-platform between 2- and 3-dimensional art, and lithographs and
advertising posters created by Lautrec, Orazi and Max were works of art in
themselves. Perhaps he was sick and missed class the day they covered Lichtenstein and Warhol.
Whatever the reason for his thought process, I struggled through
two semesters of graphic design with him, not because I was a poor student, but
because I had a slightly different view of the world. Wynn could be considered
black and white “Wall Street Journal” and I would be classified as colorful
“Funny Pages”. I shared my theory of Wynn’s irrational prejudice against the
Fine Arts with Brian, one of my classmates, but he was not entirely convinced
of Wynn’s alleged attitude against “Art”.
It is said that people may forget the words that were said
to them, but they will always remember how it made them feel. I remember how
Wynn made me feel and what he said. Near
the end of my final semester, in unjustified disdain,
he told me: “You have no business being in graphic design. No one will ever
hire you.” After class, I cried in my car as I drove the long way home from
school.
A few short days after the “Wynn Incident”, an envelope
arrived in the mail, announcing my comic strip entry as one of the winners of
the contest! Just weeks before graduation, it was a dream-come-true! I was to be published on the front page
of the Sunday Funny Paper along with my comic strip idols Charles Schulz the
creator of “Peanuts” and Bill Watterson the creator of “Calvin and Hobbes.” No
one would hire me, indeed!
The next day, I practically flew to school with new wind
beneath my wings, anxious to share this news with my classmates and especially
Wynn. As I happily reported on the pending printing of my winning comic strip,
one girl inquired what the strip was about. When I described the four-panel
sequence, she bitterly remarked that my idea was “offensive to women.” I was
stunned. What had seemed like vindication, now seemed like the greatest politically
incorrect, social faux pas soon to be published and seen in every household in
the city…with my NAME on it! I was just sick at heart.
I’m not exactly sure what my demeanor was when I returned
home from school that afternoon, but my Dad sensed something was bothering me. When
he inquired how my day at school was, the floodgates opened and the events of
the preceding days came gushing from within me. I could feel myself teetering
on the edge of tears, and with calm “Father Knows Best” wisdom, Dad responded
simply, “They know you are their competition. Don’t let them get to you.” Situation
instantly defused.
Never had it occurred to me that my classmates were
“competition”. I always viewed them as my peers and equals. Until Wynn, I always
believed my teachers were on the same team with me…weren’t they? The same can
be said about my view of coworkers and managers.
In my early managerial position, I had interviewed many
interns in whose portfolios I recognized Wynn’s assignments. On more than one
occasion, upon the mention of his name, applicants confided that Wynn made them
cry (all of them women). This behavior was his Modus Operandi, and I began to
realize the problem was much bigger and belonged soley to him.
Throughout my career, I have come across many bitter
naysayers like Wynn and that female classmate—who is so insignificant now that
I don’t remember her face or her name. But both have been proven wrong. The NOW never did march upon my family home to protest my harmless little comic strip. Someone
DID hire me, and above all, I have been blest with a wonderfully productive and
artistic career in graphic design.
Whether or not any situation is viewed as a competition,
there will always be someone trying to outdo, one-up, and distract you from
your goals. Don’t let them get to you.
Inspired by Dad’s words…and how they made me feel.
My winning entry in the Wheel & Sprocket Comic Contest. |
wow ... you have been a star since your childhood :)
ReplyDeleteMaybe so...but I promise not to let it inflate my ego!
Delete"Wynn" sounds like a stiff, stick-up, unhappy person who probably was frustrated with teaching instead working as a designer. Glad your dad was there to offer some perspective. Man, I would have loved to meet your dad ... sounds like he was a very cool dude. Rock on, slick design chick.
ReplyDeleteI was fortunate enough to enjoy the best of both worlds: working as a designer and mentoring student interns. Not everyone is cut out for that.
DeleteAnd yes, Dad was very cool! :)
Good Read !!! :)
ReplyDeleteThank you, my Anonymous Friend!
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